How We Relate

How We Relate is an illustrated Christian guide to the Enneagram by Jesse Eubanks, an Enneagram coach and host of The EnneaCast podcast. It aims to show how God speaks into your particular personality and life story so that the gospel comes alive for you.

Eubanks uses the Enneagram to lead readers toward Jesus, where he says they will find the wholeness they long for. Along the way, readers peel back the layers of the False Self, encounter Jesus and experience the redemption of the True Self.

The book helps readers understand their own personality and those of other people, and explore their distinct approach to relationships. It looks at how Jesus empathizes with and heals each person's core wound, and reads the Enneagram through the gospel story. The aim is more meaningful relationships with God, with others and with yourself.